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Courageous and respectful conversations about the topics that challenge and divide us.

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Why do we struggle to find common ground?

Society is more polarised and fragmented than ever before and many of us have lost the ability to listen to the other side: almost half of Australians feel the nation is more divided today than in the past (Edelman Trust Barometer 2023).

At the same time, we’ve shrunk the potential spaces for everyday people to come together and hear each other out. We’ve swapped debate for comment wars. This makes society weaker - as without the ability to empathise with each other, especially when its most difficult, we’ll never make progress on the big things that matter.

That’s where The Parley comes in. The Parley is a signature program of the Museum of Sticks & Stones (MoSS) designed to create spaces for courageous and respectful conversations about the topics that challenge and divide us.

It’s not about changing minds but building common ground—helping us all understand and hold space for perspectives that differ from our own, without devolving into the hostility so common in digital exchanges. In short, The Parley teaches us how to disagree with kindness and respect.

And a lot of laughs.
87%
of surveyed Parley attendees reported being able to better empathise with opposing views as a result of attending.
HOW IT WORKS

As a public event series

We’ve hosted sold-out Parleys at some of Brisbane’s most iconic arts venues, including the Brisbane Powerhouse and the newly revitalised Thomas Dixon Centre.

The Parley brings together teams of comedians, artists, academics, and community members to debate divisive, timeless, and often unanswerable questions. We carefully consider topics to Parley, intentionally choosing subjects that are not just complex, but fraught with disagreement.

As a community tool

The Parley is also a flexible framework that can be brought to any organisation, team, or community.

Whether you’re navigating change, tackling a complex problem, or fostering dialogue, The Parley provides a structured, engaging way to explore multiple perspectives. We can source expert debaters or help your community members step into The Parley framework themselves, fostering dialogue that is both challenging and constructive.
OUR MISSION & VALUES

Here's what people had to say

It was such a safe space. Both sides were not only open to what the other side had to say, but curious. For both sides to be so articulate and well rounded and considerate - I think people got a lot out of that.
Dan Axelson
Parley Debater
I like the idea of meaningful debate. It is sometimes easy to just discredit the other side, but allowing space for the conversation is the ideal situation.
Parley Attendee
June 2023
I saw different points to both sides of the debate that I had not previously considered.
Parley Attendee
March 2023
I like the idea of meaningful debate. It is sometimes easy to just discredit the other side, but allowing space for the conversation is the ideal situation.
Parley Attendee
June 2023

WHO IS INVOLVED

Our previous debaters

Ashwin Segkar portrait
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Ashwin Segkar
Ashwin Segkar started out as a debater at our very first event and has since become our MC. With his warmth, quick wit, and sharp mind, Ashwin’s made The Parley a place where curiosity is encouraged, debates stay respectful, and every voice feels heard. On stage, he brings the perfect balance of energy, humour, and thoughtful discussions that get people thinking in new ways. Ashwin’s also an experienced radio presenter, hosting a range of statewide and national shows, and a talented stand-up comedian.
Speaker & Coach
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Roman the MC
Researcher
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Nataya Branjerdporn
Creative
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Michelle Mashuro
Researcher
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Ariadna Matamoros Fernandez
Creative
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Alyson Joyce
Student
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Sigrid Mather
Philosopher & Entrepreneur
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Alain Guillemain
Innovation Expert
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Dan Axelson
Comedian
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Ivy Hawke
Creative Technologist
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Jessie Hughes
Researcher
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Julie-Ann Carroll

PAST PARLEY EVENTS

Insights and highlights from our past Parley events

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